Flip the Script is a Bee series that challenges negative stereotypes (with the help of readers) by highlighting Fresno's remarkable assets and culture. Have a tip? Email [email protected].
Fresno is a place of archetypes.
There are the natives; those born and bred with Valley roots. These are families, known and not, with ties that go back generations. See: the Pardinis and their restaurant empire.
There are the boomerangs; those who left Fresno (for greener pastures, imagined or real) only to return. Kopi Sotiropulos is famously a boomerang. He left to Los Angeles in 1977 and spent the bulk of the 1980s as a working actor before returning to Fresno and becoming the well-known TV personality he is today.
Note: There is a subcategory of Boomerangs who have left and returned more than once. It is something that happens often enough to have its own name (on Reddit, at least). It’s called the Fresno curse.
There are tourists; both figurative and literal. These are the ones who are just passing through and who, for better or worse, see the area with an outsider’s eyes.
And then, there are the transplants; those who came to the area and found it agreeable enough to stay and put down roots.
Earlier this year, The Fresno Bee asked readers to share their stories as part of a reporting project aimed at changing the narrative around what it means to live in Fresno. Here are three transplants on why they moved to the area — and why they’ve stayed.
Steve Skibbie moved to Fresno with no intention of staying long.
Nearly 40 years later, he’s still here, and happily.
“I’ve seen this hundreds of times,” says Skibbie, a professional photographer and production specialist for the Fresno County Superintendent of Schools. People say they’ll only be in Fresno for a year or two, “and then they get sucked into the community.”
“They may not even like Fresno,” he says, “but they love the community.”
Skibbie came to Fresno from Oregon in 1987. He had just gotten out of military service and wanted to be a photojournalist. The program at Fresno State came highly recommended. So much so, that Skibbie drove down and camped out in the parking lot of the Joyal Administration building to get a jump on introducing himself around the journalism department.
He knew, almost immediately, that he had chosen the right place.
“I came to Fresno and I liked it. It just hit me right.”
The frat guys during his freshman orientation that first week of school, they didn’t have much to good to say about the city, Skibbie says. It was, “avoid south of Shaw, avoid downtown.”
Skibbie didn’t take that advice. He started venturing around those parts of town, where he found some great architecture. But he really discovered the city with his then-girlfriend (eventual wife). They were running a book club for kids who lived in the motels along Broadway Avenue. Skibbie found there a group of people who seemed to get a bad wrap “because they were poor and lived in a neighborhood that nobody liked.”
“We really just kind of decided that we were going to live downtown,” he says.
For a time, Skibbie and his wife lived as part of a Christian ministry at the Pink House, a fourplex apartment building on L street near the First Presbyterian Church.
In 1998, they became homeowners.
They were one of several families that moved into the Lowell neighborhood, a mostly forgotten collection of homes tucked between Tower District and downtown proper. The neighborhood was one of Fresno’s first subdivisions and as such includes mansions, but also mid-sized homes, bungalow courts and apartments. The Skibbies bought and renovated a 100-year old home, where they lived and raised their children.
There was a moment, early on when Skibbie thought about leaving Fresno. His parents tried to lure him back to Oregon with a job opportunity, and his wife was ready to go. He applied for the job and interviewed, “and failed,” he says.
His daughter and son-in-law recently moved into the family home, which allowed Skibbie and his wife to “retire” into a loft apartment inside the Pacific Southwest Building.
His daughter is a now boomerang, who returned from a stay in Florida, because Fresno is still a place to get your feet on the ground after school, Skibbie says. The city did rank in the top 10 on a list of the most affordable places to live the state, according to one survey.
Like Skibbie, Paula Castadio, moved to Fresno in the late ’80s to attend Fresno State.
She was a California native and from the Valley; raised just up Highway 99 in the city of Atwater. The counselors at her high school must have had some kind of deal with the university, she says, because “they didn’t really share any other options.”
Plus, her brother was already a student there and that helped in the decision making process.
After graduation, she met her husband, Richard, and began a career that included a long stint with Valley Public Television (where she served as the president and CEO for a decade) and a shorter one at Fresno State. She now works as a consultant.
But there was something else going on.
“I developed a heart for the community,” Castadio says.
“Once you start connecting with the people here, it does tether you,” she says.
“I continue to be touched by that.”
She can point to any number of organizations that are working hard for the good of the community; Cradle to Career, the Fresno Business Council, Central Valley Community Foundation and it’s Drive initiative, which has advocated for $4.2 billion in new development over the next decade. There’s also new investments in art through Measure P, which Castadio calls hugely transformative for Fresno and our mindset.
“That will make this an even more attractive place to live,” she says.
Of course, for Castadio, Fresno has never been short of appeal.
There’s a mix of people and cultures here, and a good cost of living compared to the available quality-of-life activities. The city’s centralized location also puts one in proximity to most places in the state, which is important for the Castadios. They travel up in Napa to see her parents and to the Central Coast. That’s where they spend much of their off time.
Not that they haven’t given thought to other places, or pictured where they might end up if they weren’t here.
“We do the Google search. And we always come back to Fresno,” Castadio says.
“It is a great place to live based on all the factors I can think of.”
For Timothy McCollum and his wife Carol there were two factors that led them to Fresno.
“There was what we wanted to avoid and what we wanted to achieve,” says McCollum a retired lawyer who sold his home in Southern California to move to the foothills northeast of Fresno in October of 1990.
He grew up in Los Angeles.
“I just didn’t want to live long enough to die in Los Angeles.”
The couple looked at cities up and down the state, “from San Diego to Sacramento,” before settling on 40 acres of raw cattle land near Tollhouse.
There, they found a place with clean water and cleaner air, no noise or light pollution. “And,” McCollum jokes, “there were no chemical plants up gradient from us.”
McCollum worked in environmental law.
The property allowed them to have horses, which the couple kept until they got to old to ride, and raise longhorn cattle. They had 22 at the height of things, including a somewhat famous sire bull.
Now they’re down to five.
McCollum commuted into Fresno for work, where there was access to a federal courthouse. That access was an important piece of why McCollum chose the area.
But among out of town lawyers, there was a certain stigma in being from Fresno. “Nothing original was ever created in Fresno, legally,” he says.
One could use that to their advantage.
Now, in his 80s, McCollum is officially retired. But the couple still makes it down into Fresno a few times a week and is happy with their decision to move.
“It’s been wonderful,” he says.
“We’re delighted to be here.”
McCollum actually first shared his thoughts on Fresno with The Bee back in 1998 as part of a series of stories on the Valley’s image. He was one of hundreds who filled out a 46-question survey.
At the time, he called the city “a wonderful place to live,” with one major exception.
“The one great lack in Fresno is leadership,” he said.
“With the current leadership, Fresno is doomed to be a branch office location for distant corporations. If it’s lucky.”