DARIEN — With its historic architecture, acres of green space and sweeping views of Long Island Sound, Great Island in Darien is the kind of place that may soon find its way onto wedding inspiration mood boards.
That fairytale hometown wedding could become a reality, as members of the Darien Great Island Advisory Committee look at crafting a policy that would allow events on Great Island, from painting classes to larger-scale celebrations, such as weddings.
But there is no possibility of "large events" such as big concerts taking place on Great Island, First Selectman Jon Zagrodzky said.
"There's simply no chance we're going to have highly disruptive events. ... It's not going to happen," he said.
The Great Island Advisory Committee has finished its work, Zagrodzky said, and the issue will go to the Board of Selectmen in August to determine the process, "and what level of activity really makes sense on the island."
“What if a resident who has lived here all his life … and his wife are hoping that their daughter can get married in a ceremony out on the island?” Zagrodzky said. “Why wouldn’t we try to accommodate that family to have a discreet … event, say, one afternoon or an evening so they can celebrate that family event on an island in a town where they’ve been all their lives?”
Given its unique offerings and local significance, a venue such as Great Island is something wedding planner Danielle Mihai knows her many Darien clients would love. The founder of Stamford-based planning company Of Elegance said she could see couples drawn to the space’s natural beauty and historic significance.
“If they're from Darien, and Darien is their home, what better place to do it?” Mihai said “(Clients are) always looking for something unique, but not just a space that anyone can get married — somewhere that speaks to them and that their guests, when they show up, feel like this is a place that represents the couple.”
However, Mihai said, residents, as well as officials, understand there are some concerns about how best to balance hosting such celebrations without affecting the island.
Most agree there should be some limit on how many large-scale events — such as weddings or bar or bat mitzvahs — should be allowed in a year. In recognition of how the popularity of weddings, the advisory committee discussed rules about booking the space.
Members generally agreed that the couple getting married and their parents should be allowed to book the space if at least one of them is a Darien resident. However, some suggested widening that availability to grandparents and siblings.
Curtailing the number of large events may also be a benefit, not only for the island but also for those hosting events, Mihai said.
“It helps them keep the beauty of the space (and) not overused, but also it makes it a sought after, more exclusive thing,” she said. “People are going to want to do it more, because not everyone gets to do it just like every other venue.”
Officials may need to take into account power access, parking and options for inclement weather, Mihai said.
For example, advisory committee members discussed the possibility of bringing in dance floors or tents for weddings.
While town officials are excited to move forward with weddings, some residents worry that pushing forward with events could have negative consequences for the estate.
Community group Darien Green Wave, founded by residents Natalie Tallis, Julie Jones and Juliet Cain, questions whether Great Island is a place that can actually host such large events.
"It is premature to consider hosting events of any size" given the lack of clarity around the environmental, financial and operational implications of such a policy, co-founder Tallis said in a statement.
“Clear public feedback has expressed strong opposition to these events, and significant concerns regarding environmental, operational and zoning issues remain unresolved,” Tallis said. “The only decision that a majority of the residents have supported with respect to large private events is the decision not to allow them on Great Island.”
During a recent installment of the “Ask the First Selectman” series on public access channel TV79, Zagrodzky stated that 54% of Darien residents said they oppose the idea of large events at Great Island. However, he also said the 46% of residents who said they wanted "large events" was a significant number.
As someone who works on many historic properties such as Waveny House in New Canaan, Residents’ concerns are valid, Mihai said, and any policy that officials develop must be done thoughtfully and with community input.
“It has the potential to be such a unique and desirable venue, but, I mean, we have to be respectful of preserving the space, just like any other historic space,” she said.
Even if a policy is agreed on within the next couple months, anyone hoping to host a gathering of more than 100 people will be out of luck for a while. Advisory committee members generally agreed that large events won’t be possible on Great Island for the next eight to nine months as construction commences to widen the entrance road.
During that time, members proposed not allowing setting up larger scale items such as tents or floors.
Smaller events of under 100 people may be able to move forward on limited hours — after 4 p.m. weekdays and dawn to dusk weekends — though officials may limit those to two or three per weekend.
Other event policy ideas include limiting events to day-of setup and takedown, with the planners bringing everything in and out themselves.
Zagrodzky met recently with the Great Island Advisory Committee and said he was seeking to move cautiously with some social events and then evaluate how they went.
"It's all brand new. What we need to do is start with some low-key events, let's try some weddings, and see what works," he said. "We're going to do this in a transparent way, we're going to listen to neighbors. We're not going to upset and anger large majorities of people."