WEST COLUMBIA — Gone are the days of ‘children are to be seen and not heard,’ but also it seems gone are the days of separate parent and child leisure time.
This merge is evident on a sunny afternoon at Savage Craft Ale Works in West Columbia, where customers range from toddlers to retirees.
“We are starting to get the families that like to get out of the house more. People aren’t throwing kid’s birthday parties at home or McDonalds or Chuck E. Cheese anymore,” said Savage Craft Ale Work’s general manager Victoria Porter.
As new parents head out to dine with their kids in tow they are looking for more than just chicken fingers and playgrounds. They are looking for a third space — or non-work, home or school space to gather and socialize — that meets the needs of the whole family.
“You know that feeling of we’ve got to eat our food and get out of here as quickly as we can, versus a space that truly wants us here,” said Kaitlin Maltba. Maltba founded the Cola Baby Social Club, a mom group that hosts meet ups across the city.
That unwelcome feeling can come from details that many parents probably would not have considered in their pre-kid lives. A flight of stairs means no stroller. A quiet dining room means anxiety about disturbing fellow customers. An unfenced green space means pulling out the kid leash. Okay, maybe not the leash, but the point is, kids have different needs from third spaces.
While a James Beard Award finalist might not immediately sound like a kid-friendly restaurant, Cola Baby Social Club frequents smallSUGAR in the Vista.
Here, there is no designated kids menu, but plenty of vegetables, a spacious patio and warm staff keep families returning.
Hunter Crowe, Director of Hospitality at smallSUGAR and the City Grit Hospitality Group, said that welcomed feeling speaks to the ethos of their business.
“I think one of the core principles at smallSUGAR, and at the entire restaurant group, is we are here to serve other people and our community.”
One of the big draws is the food itself, said Crowe.
“I think the combination of us serving that nontraditional fresh food and the fact that we do make everything in house, we do use good quality ingredients, is what brings in crowds," he explained.
Healthy food also drew Maltba to plan meet ups at As Well As, a cafe in Rosewood that serves nutrition-packed smoothies.
“Their space is kind of like a living room … the owners don’t mind if we come in there for an hour and kind of run around and play,” Maltba said.
This space, like smallSUGAR, was not designed with children in mind, but rather the whole community.
“We just want to have a space for the community,” said part owner Kelly Holbrook. “Someone could be intimidated by walking into a health and wellness space, but we try to just make really yummy smoothies that are appealing to everyone.”
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Columbia breweries and bars also create welcoming third spaces for a wide range of ages.
For the craft beer and bottle shop Craft and Draft, this has been a natural progression.
“We’ve always really focused on young professionals," part-owner Katelyn Shire told Free Times. "When that generation of young professionals started marrying and having kids, we started growing with them.”
Both their Devine Street and Irmo locations have incorporated family friendly elements including craft sodas, popsicles and arcade games. While hospitality plays a role in this welcoming environment, it is also good for business.
“The kids love the claw games. So we’re providing some entertainment, but it also is a revenue-based opportunity that is a safer thing that kids can be doing inside,” Shire said.
Keeping kids and other patrons safe is on the mind of Porter at Savage Craft Ale Works, where balls and bikes are not allowed in the biergarten.
“All the rules that we have are to protect the little ones,” she said. The biergarten features a kids menu and plenty of space to run. But that does not mean the whole establishment has turned into a children’s playground.
“We made it so that the biergarten is a great space for friends and families and larger groups, whereas the rooftop is literally 21-and-up, valid ID, no pets. It’s just that free space for an adult to be an adult,” Porter said as an assurance that children are not totally taking over the bars of Columbia.
But there is ample opportunity to merge pre- and post-kid life in Columbia.
"You can resume your life in a way that makes sense for both you and your new child,” Maltba said.