IRMO — Samuel "Sammie" Mathias was the type of person you don’t remember meeting. Not because he wasn’t memorable, but because for many Irmo residents, it felt like he had always been a part of their life.
Jake Moore Jr., a local lawyer and Irmo native, remembers Mathias during his visits to Mathias’ sandwich shop off St. Andrews Road every Saturday growing up. There, Moore would eat brownies for breakfast, use quarters to buy gum and M&M’s, and run around the restaurant. Mathias would remain kind and patient, even when Moore said he and his siblings were running wild.
David Furr, another Irmo native and longtime patron at Mathias Sandwich Shop, remembers Mathias as a father figure — to him and anyone who walked in the door. Mathias was someone who would discuss South Carolina football with him (even though Furr is a Clemson fan) and remembered details from conversations they’d had months earlier.
And those are just some of the many stories about Mathias, who customers, staff and Irmo residents continually described as generous, welcoming, hard-working and kind in hundreds of comments and social media posts in the wake of his death.
The long-time owner of Mathias Sandwich Shop passed away Aug. 11 at 74 after a brief illness. Over his 40-plus years leading the restaurant, Mathias built the shop’s reputation as a meeting place for the Irmo community and a go-to spot for a meal and a friendly face.
Ryan Mathias, Sammie Mathias’ son and the future owner of the sandwich shop, described his father as having a heart of gold, a man immensely committed to his restaurant and customers — whom he often put before himself.
“He was the most generous, hardest working person that I've ever been around,” Ryan Mathias said. “He was 74 years old and he worked about 70 hours a week until he absolutely couldn't do it anymore.”
For many customers, Sammie Mathias’ dedication created made the shop an environment that felt like more than a restaurant.
“I go there because it smells good and the atmosphere is pleasant and relaxed. And it's home,” Moore said. “And Sammie Mathias made that happen, and he's made that happen over years of hard work and just caring about people and getting to know people.”
While the restaurant was incredibly important to him, Furr said Sammie Mathias made it clear to his customers that they were equally, if not more, important to him. When other people talked, Furr said Sammie always made it a priority to listen.
“He was an uncommon person, because he (treated) everybody the way you want to be treated, the way few people treat you,” Furr said. “He is that figure in your life that loves you the most and cares for you the most, and genuinely knows you because he always listened.”
Furr said Sammie Mathias was known for frequently sitting down to chat with customers, even letting people come back to his office to talk for a few minutes. Furr said he would often drive a separate car to the restaurant so he could spend an extra 15 to 30 minutes with the restaurant owner after his family finished their meal. And after Furr was in a car wreck one day, he decided to go to Mathias before he went home.
“My car got towed away, and my sister picked me up and asked me if she needed to take me home. And I said, ‘No, let's go to Mathias,’ because I knew that Mathias offered comfort that home didn't always and the person who provided that comfort, most of all, was Sam,” Furr said.
Ryan Mathias said his father was unable to work the past few months. In his absence, a team of people stepped up to fill the role he left behind. For Ryan Mathias and Furr, the void shows Sammie Mathias’ wide-reaching impact, both at the restaurant and in Irmo.
“There will be a hole that won't necessarily be filled, but we're glad it existed … because the fact that there is a hole means that there was an impact,” Furr said. “So I think as a business owner, as a person in our community, it shows that he made an impact that will last.”
Furr said Sammie Mathias’ legacy will continue to inspire others to listen more and to mirror his deep love and care.
“That's his legacy, that he always loved first,” Furr said. “He always listened first. And you didn't have your meal messed up at Mathias because he cared.”
Ryan Mathias said his dad was always old-fashioned and liked to keep things the same. He hopes to carry on what that tradition. Ryan Mathias asked that the Irmo community keep eating at Mathias and “keep this business going.”
Sammie Mathias’ funeral service will be on Friday at Redeemer Lutheran Church at 1 p.m. And on his way to the service around 11:30 p.m., he will stop at his favorite place — Mathias Sandwich Shop — for one last time.