Katherine Elizabeth Ryder Hargrave, age 65, of Bulverde, Texas, passed away on September 8, 2025, at her home, surrounded by her husband and children. Kathy was born on August 1, 1960, in Bexar County, San Antonio, Texas, to Gene Ed Ryder and Mary Louise Wilson Ryder.She was a devoted wife of 33 years and a loving mother to four children: Lindy Marie Hargrave, married to Arden French; Matthew Steven Lefever, husband to Rachelle Ware Lefever; Amy Katherine Lefever, wife of David Ranne, and mother to four children: Charlie Frank-Lynn Ra...
Katherine Elizabeth Ryder Hargrave, age 65, of Bulverde, Texas, passed away on September 8, 2025, at her home, surrounded by her husband and children. Kathy was born on August 1, 1960, in Bexar County, San Antonio, Texas, to Gene Ed Ryder and Mary Louise Wilson Ryder.
She was a devoted wife of 33 years and a loving mother to four children: Lindy Marie Hargrave, married to Arden French; Matthew Steven Lefever, husband to Rachelle Ware Lefever; Amy Katherine Lefever, wife of David Ranne, and mother to four children: Charlie Frank-Lynn Ranne, Philip Isaiah Lea, Alma Louise Lea, and Walter Gene David Lea; and Cherae Elizabeth Lefever, Kathy’s youngest daughter and mother to Eli Steven Yamini. Kathy cherished her five grandchildren deeply and unconditionally. Her love for them was a constant source of joy and pride.
Over her 40-year career, Kathy worked as a closing agent in real estate transactions and later in Frost Bank’s commercial loan documentation department. Even after retiring, she continued to use her expertise as a mobile notary signing agent and closer in the state of Texas. She also partnered closely with her husband in his gem-cutting business, managing office planning and client relationships, enabling him to focus on his creative and award-winning designs.
Kathy was also a gifted fiber artist, excelling in sewing, quilting, and embroidery. The handmade gifts she created are treasured by her family and so many close friends. She was known for her generosity, often donating her time, energy, and talents to her church, community, and extended family.
Despite her professional responsibilities, Kathy was a constant support to her parents in their later years. Her presence and musical gifts brought them comforts; she would often play the piano for them, choosing hymns and songs they had grown up singing. These shared moments of music brought them peace and joy.
Kathy’s legacy of love, faith, and selfless service will continue to inspire and comfort those she leaves behind. Memorial Services will be on Friday, September 12, 2025, 10:00 am at Bulverde Baptist Church, 1331 Bulverde Rd., Bulverde, TX 78163, http://www.bulverdebaptist.com.