As members of Congregation B'nai Israel (CBI) in Bernards lovingly passed their Torah from one to the next, members of Rutgers Hillel in the circle took the Torah gently and lovingly in their arms. The unbroken circle continued, signifying the end of one home for the Torah to another.
CBI held its last Shabbat service on Dec. 13 last year, and now their Torah has a new home.
"We burst into tears," said CBI Board Trustee Nancy Frank Cook. "We had no idea it was going to affect us like that. But to know that we're passing it on for a legacy is fantastic."
Due to a change in demographics, with fewer Jews living in and moving into the area, declining membership, as well as fewer Jews putting a priority on joining a synagogue, CBI could no longer continue. The synagogue closed as a Jewish institution in December, selling the property for $4.65 million to New Testament Ministries.
The 35-year-old synagogue's building at 40 Whitenack Road in the Basking Ridge section is now the home of New Testament Church.
It's all very bittersweet, said Cook, who was a member for 25 years and served in a variety of positions at the synagogue. But she is happy that the facility still serves as a religious institution.
"It's extremely sad − I considered CBI my home, my second home and I've lost my home," Cook said. "But, as far as I am concerned, there is only one God. So, I couldn't have been happier that our blood, sweat and tears of opening that building and spending that money is going to continue to be a house of worship. It doesn't matter that it's a different denomination. It makes me sad that my family is no longer there, but it makes me happy that it's still a place of worship."
CBI, also known as the Somerset Hills Jewish Center, was an egalitarian conservative synagogue established in 1990. Part of the Jewish Federation of Somerset, Hunterdon, and Warren counties, CBI offered a variety of programs and services including religious services, religious school, adult education, social action and social events. It also had a strong focus on connecting with Israel.
CBI members came from across the Somerset Hills, from Bernards in Somerset County to Chester in Morris.
According to Cook, CBI began as a grassroots effort when a few families realized there wasn't a Jewish synagogue right in the Somerset Hills area. After an effort to enlist more, 10 families got together and started the synagogue in homes. It soon grew to 35 families and members rented out space in churches, such as St. Marks in Basking Ridge, for services and celebrations, and held religious school at Bernard High School.
As more Jews moved into the area and new construction in the Somerset Hills began, membership grew and grew, Cook said. With a capital fund and a building fund, enough money was raised to have their own space. In 1988, they received Planning Board approval to build a 27,700-square-foot facility with a synagogue, social hall, religious and nursery school. The synagogue was dedicated on Dec. 3, 2000, with the sanctuary's dedication taking place on Sept. 21, 2008.
At its height, CBI boasted a membership of 285 families.
Then, around the time of the Great Recession, things changed, and membership began to decline. CBI had a $3.9 million mortgage and were down to about 100 families. The preschool closed in 2015.
"I think religion took on a secondary role in priorities of young families," Cook said. "And new Jews were not moving into the area. Kids getting Bar/Bat Mitzvah were not continuing. Families were dropping. I guess they felt they could use their money elsewhere. My feeling is religion is not that important in society today. And we just couldn't sustain the expenses of the building. In the last three to five years, we started seeing it, and we started really aggressively trying to get new members, but it just wasn't happening."
While the pandemic "didn't help matters" when it came to raising membership, Cook said they did thrive socially during that period, with well-attended services on Zoom. They held Bingo and other social events online and outside. Even in the last few months, CBI was holding services and hosting well-attended events and activities.
"People were there," she said. "We just weren't attracting new members."
About three years ago, CBI brought in an expert from the Jewish Federation to discuss different options. As a board, Cook said they went through a variety of scenarios. Ultimately, they decided CBI probably had about a year left. They alerted the members in June 2024 at the annual membership meeting that CBI would be ceasing operations.
"We didn't want to hide anything," Cook said. "We promised to stay through at least the High Holidays of September. In October of 2024 we put our building on the market to sell. And surprisingly, we sold it. We do have a surplus of money because we sold the building, and we are in the process of figuring out what we're going to do with it. We know it's going to be in some type of a legacy foundation."
CBI's prayer books and Judaica objects have been donated to other congregations and all records have been archived, Cook said.
Some members have moved to other nearby synagogues such as Temple Shalom in Bridgewater, Morristown Jewish Center and Temple Har Shalom in Warren. Rabbi Robert Green, who was the clergy for CBI for eight years, has founded Yetzirah, a "synagogue without walls," Cook said. While it is not affiliated with CBI, several former members are attending programs and services with Green every other week at the Fellowship Village retirement community.
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