Wilmington StarNews
As a performer, the last thing Vivien Monnie wants to hear is “good job.”
Over the past three years, the Leland resident and retired real estate agent has found success in an artform that was previously untread territory for her: stand-up comedy. While she was a newcomer, it didn’t take long for Monnie to receive recognition for her act.
In 2023, she won third place in the solo performance category at the Brunswick County Senior Games SilverArts Follies. The following year, she won the competition and was selected to compete at the state level in Cary. She performed a routine about senior discount days at the grocery store, using impressions of the characters she meets to vent frustrations about overworked cashiers and unsolicited flirtations from men with no teeth.
“It makes me wonder, is there a senior day at Victoria’s Secret?” Monnie said to the audience before exiting the stage.
The highest honor in comedy
After the crowd erupted in applause, Monnie took home the gold medal for the solo category. Unfortunately, she would not get an opportunity to compete on the national level because North Carolina is the only state with an arts section in their Senior Games. Monnie jokes that she is the top senior comedian in the country by default.
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Medals are secondary to the real reward that Monnie chases: laughter. While she has received a significant amount of praise for her work, she sometimes finds herself disappointed in the way people react. She recalls a time some people she knew were in the audience.
“There wasn’t any talking, but there also wasn’t a lot of laughter,” Monnie said. “They were listening, but it seemed like they weren’t there to have a good time. They were there to judge me. And then at the end, when I saw people individually, they told me I was great. And I’m like, well why didn’t you laugh?”
After the experience, Monnie realized she needed to tailor her routine to fit the crowd she was performing for. That's when she had the idea to write about senior discount days for the Senior Games.
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Although she recognizes her place as an amateur comedian, Monnie takes pride in her work. She commits her act to memory to not have to read from a notebook onstage. She does not believe that there are any secrets or shortcuts to doing something great. The only way to do something well, Monnie said, is to work at it wholeheartedly. She likens performing arts to cooking, her other favorite hobby.
“Anybody can be a really good cook,” Monnie said. “You just have to follow a recipe. If you don’t take the time to read, and if you aren’t passionate, it’s not going to work.”
For her, much of that work takes place in the middle of the night. Ideas come to her when she is unable to fall asleep after waking up at 3 a.m. By the time she gets up to start her day, she already has a storyline developed for a new routine. After writing it down, she makes several revisions and practices aloud with a stopwatch. For most stand-up sets, comedians are allotted a limited amount of stage time where routines have to be calculated to the minute.
“Sometimes you have to pause or speak quickly to make it funny,” Monnie said. “That all has to be taken into account.”
From screen to stage
Monnie attended stand-up comedy classes at Dead Crow Comedy Room in Wilmington following a recommendation from her friend Eric Mens, who also competed in the Brunswick County Senior Games. The two studied dramatic acting at the Leland Cultural Arts Center together.
Monnie moved to Leland with her husband six years ago from Cincinnati. She worked in real estate for 30 years but often found herself with one foot in performing arts. She worked on “Cincinnati on the Go,” a city-subsidized television show that explored a variety of local offerings.
“They would send me to do these crazy things like ballroom dancing,” Monnie said. “I was on camera and writing the dialogue. It was too much work for a volunteer job.”
Monnie says she moved to Leland after “picking a spot on the map.” While her and her husband were ready to leave Ohio, she knew as a native New Yorker how expensive it can be to live on the East Coast. Prior to choosing Leland, the couple considered the prospect of living in Charleston, South Carolina, but ultimately decided it was too humid.
“If you go to Charleston in April you’re already sweating,” Monnie said.
The local comedy scene
Since getting involved with the local community of comedians, Monnie has struggled to find the perfect venue for her act. She has enjoyed performing on the Gio Fund Gong Show, a periodic variety show run by a nonprofit that raises funds for no-kill animal welfare in the Wilmington area. Overall, comedy is a late-night activity by nature, which can be at odds with her schedule.
“My days of partying until 2 a.m. are over,” Monnie said. “That’s primarily why I’m not out there more.”
She has approached restaurant owners in Leland with the idea of hosting stand-up comedians but has not garnered much interest.
“I asked if they had ever thought of having stand-up and they said that they had it once, and they thought the person was hilarious,” Monnie said. “But nobody in the restaurant listened to them. They complained. People wanted to have their own conversations. So, this person couldn’t have been that funny.”
Beyond cooking and comedy, there is one recreational activity that Monnie refuses to participate in following her lengthy career in real estate.
“People watch these shows where they renovate houses,” Monnie said. “I don’t think I need to see another house. I don’t care what they do to the outside, I don’t care what they do to the inside. I don’t care anymore.”