It's no secret, most of us would like to stay in our own home as we age. Yet, sometimes our loved ones just need a little extra help to remain comfortable at home. That's where Always Best Care can help....we are dedicated to exceeding expectations....always
They say that your golden years are the best years of your life. For most older Americans, that's how it should be - a time to relax, reflect, and live life in a familiar place. After all, senior citizens in the U.S. have worked tirelessly to build a better economy, serve their communities, and raise families.
However, as seniors grow older, completing daily tasks like showering and enjoying activities such as visiting the historic Oak Island Pier gets harder without someone by their side. Unfortunately, many older Americans aren't able to rely on their adult children for help. The reality in today's world is that family members do not have the skills or time to dedicate to caring for their parents. That's where Always Best Care Senior Services comes in.
Our in-home care services are for people who prefer to stay at home as they grow older but need ongoing care that family or friends cannot provide. More and more older adults prefer to live far away from long-term, institutionalized facilities and closer to the place where they feel most comfortable - their home. Home care in Oak Island, NC is a safe, effective way to give your loved ones the care they need when they need it the most.
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Service AreasSince 1996, Always Best Care has provided non-medical in-home care for seniors to help them maintain a healthy lifestyle as they get older. We are proud to have helped more than 25,000 seniors maintain higher levels of dignity and respect. We focus on providing seniors with the highest level of in-home care available so that they may live happily and independently.
Unlike some senior care companies, we genuinely want to be included in our clients' lives. We believe that personalized care is always the better option over a "one size fits all" approach. To make sure our senior clients receive the best care possible, we pair them with compassionate caregivers who understand their unique needs. That way, they may provide care accordingly without compromising their wellbeing.
The Always Best Care difference lies in life's little moments - where compassionate care and trustworthy experience come together to help seniors live a fruitful, healthy life. Whether you are an aging adult that can't quite keep up with life's daily tasks or the child of a senior who needs regular in-home services, Always Best Care is here to help.
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Home is where the heart is. While that saying can sound a tad cliche, it is especially true for many seniors living in America. When given a choice, older adults most often prefer to grow older at home. An AARP study found that three out of four adults over the age of 50 want to stay in their homes and communities as they age.
When you begin to think about why, it makes sense. Home offers a sense of security, comfort, and familiarity.
The truth is, as we age, we begin to rely on others for help. When a family is too busy or lives too far away to fulfill this role, in-home senior care is often the best solution. Home care services allow seniors to enjoy personal independence while also receiving trustworthy assistance from a trained caregiver.
At Always Best Care, we offer a comprehensive range of home care services to help seniors stay healthy while they get the help they need to remain independent. As your senior loved one gets older, giving them the gift of senior care is one of the best ways to show your love, even if you live far away.
To give our senior clients the best care possible, we offer a full spectrum of in-home care services:
If your senior loved one has specific care needs, our personal care services are a great choice to consider. Personal care includes the standard caregiving duties associated with companion care and includes help with tasks such as dressing and grooming. Personal care can also help individuals with chronic conditions like diabetes.
Common personal care services include assistance with:
Sometimes, seniors need helpful reminders to maintain a high quality of life at home. If you or your senior has trouble with everyday tasks like cooking, our home helper services will be very beneficial.
Common home helper care services include assistance with:
Using this kind of care is a fantastic way to make life easier for you or your senior loved one. At Always Best Care, our talented caregivers often fill the role of a companion for seniors. That way, older adults can enjoy their favorite local activities, such as visiting Middleton Park with friends while also receiving the care they need daily or weekly.
Common companionship services include:
According to AARP, more than 53 million adults living in the U.S. provide care to someone over 50 years old. Unfortunately, these caregivers experience stress, exhaustion, and even depression. Our respite care services help family caregivers address urgent obligations, spend time with their children, and enjoy nearby activities. Perhaps more importantly, respite care gives family members time to recharge and regroup. Taking personal time to de-stress reduces the risk of caregiver burnout. So, if you've always wanted to eat at the local Island Way or visit Battery Madison, don't feel bad. Doing so is great for both you and your loved one.
At the end of the day, our goal is to become a valuable part of your senior's daily routine. That way, we may help give them the highest quality of life possible. We know that staying at home is important for your loved one, and we are here to help make sure that is possible.
If you have been on the fence about non-medical home care, there has never been a better time than now to give your senior the care, assistance, and companionship they deserve.
Always Best Care in-home services are for older adults who prefer to stay at home but need ongoing care that friends and family cannot provide. In-home care is a safe, effective way for seniors to age gracefully in a familiar place and live independent, non-institutionalized lives. The benefits of non-medical home care are numerous. Here are just a few reasons to consider senior care services from Always Best Care:
According to AARP, 9 out of 10 seniors prefer to age in place within the comfort of their own home. With in-home care, seniors have a way to stay at home, receive the care they need, and maintain a sense of independence, improving overall wellness.
If you or a member of your family have assumed the role of caregiver for your senior loved one, you know how stressful the job can be. Between caregiver burnout and constant worry, being a family caregiver is hard. In-home care relieves your burden and gives you peace of mind knowing that your older family member is in expert hands.
Unlike nursing homes, where the staff and residents rotate frequently, seniors can foster new friendships and build bonds with their caregiver. Seniors who socialize on a regular basis are often happier, which fosters positivity and leads to increased wellbeing.
No two seniors need the same kind of in-home care assistance. That is why each of our Care Plans is tailored to meet our client's individual needs. We offer plans that cover everything from light housekeeping to more involved duties like transportation to doctor's appointments. Our Care Coordinators will work closely with you to develop a personalized plan to ensure your senior's needs are exceeded.
Always Best Care offers a full array of care options for patients at all levels of health. With our trusted elderly care services, your loved one will receive the level of care necessary for them to enjoy the highest possible quality of life.
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While it's true that some seniors have complicated medical needs that prevent them from staying at home, aging in place is often the best arrangement for seniors and their families. With a trusted caregiver, seniors have the opportunity to live with a sense of dignity and do so as they see fit - something that is unavailable to many older people today.
In-home care makes it possible for millions of seniors to age in place every year. Rather than moving to a strange nursing home, seniors have the chance to stay at home where they feel the happiest and most comfortable.
How much does a senior's home truly mean to them?
A study published by the American Society on Aging found that more than half of seniors say their home's emotional value means more than how much their home is worth in monetary value. It stands to reason, then, that a senior's home is where they want to grow old.
With the help of elderly care in Oak Island, NC, seniors don't have to age in a sterilized care facility. Instead, they can age gracefully in the place they want to be most: their home. In contrast, seniors who move to a long-term care facility must adapt to new environments, new people, and new systems that the facility implements. At this stage in life, this kind of drastic change can be more harmful than helpful.
Institutional care facilities like nursing homes often put large groups of people together to live in one location. On any given day, dozens of staff members and caregivers run in and out of these facilities. Being around so many new people in a relatively small living environment can be dangerous for a seniors' health and wellbeing. When you consider that thousands of seniors passed away in nursing homes during the COVID-19 pandemic, opting for in-home care is often a safer, healthier choice for seniors.
Aging in place has been shown to improve seniors' quality of life, which helps boost physical health and also helps insulate them from viral and bacterial risks found in elderly living facilities.
For many seniors, the ability to live independently with assistance from a caregiver is a priceless option. With in-home care, seniors experience a higher level of independence and freedom - much more so than in other settings like a nursing home. When a senior has the chance to age in place, they get to live life on their own terms, inside the house that they helped make into a home. More independence means more control over their personal lives, too, which leads to increased levels of fulfillment, happiness, and personal gratification. Over time, these positive feelings can manifest into a healthier, longer life.
More independence, a healthier life, and increased comfort are only a few benefits of aging in place. You have to take into consideration the role of cost and convenience. Simply put, it's usually easier and more affordable to help seniors age in place than it is to move them into an institutional care facility. According to the US Department of Housing and Urban Development, seniors who age in the comfort of their homes can save thousands of dollars per month.
In-home care services from Always Best Care, for instance, are often less expensive than long-term solutions, which can cost upwards of six figures per year. To make matters worse, many residential care facilities are reluctant to accept long-term care insurance and other types of payment assistance.
With Always Best Care's home care services, seniors and their families have a greater level of control over their care plans. In-home care gives seniors the chance to form a bond with a trusted caregiver and also receive unmatched care that is catered to their needs. In long-term care facilities, seniors and their loved ones have much less control over their care plan and have less of a say in who provides their care.
In-home care is a valuable resource that empowers seniors to age in place on their own terms. However, a big concern for many families and their loved ones is how much in-home care costs. If you're worried that in-home care is too expensive, you may be pleasantly surprised to learn that it is one of the most affordable senior care arrangements available.
Typically, hiring an Always Best Care in-home caregiver for a few hours a week is more affordable than sending your loved one to a long-term care facility. This is true even for seniors with more complex care needs.
At Always Best Care, we will work closely with you and your family to develop a Care Plan that not only meets your care needs, but your budget requirements, too. Once we discover the level of care that you or your senior need, we develop an in-home care plan that you can afford.
In addition to our flexible care options, families should also consider the following resources to help offset potential home care costs:
When you or your senior loved one needs assistance managing daily tasks at home, finding a qualified caregiver can be challenging. It takes a special kind of person to provide reliable care for your senior loved one. However, a caregiver's role involves more than meal preparation and medication reminders. Many seniors rely on their caregivers for companionship, too.
Our companion care services give seniors the chance to socialize in a safe environment and engage in activities at home. These important efforts boost morale and provide much-needed relief from repetitive daily routines. A one-on-one, engaging conversation can sharpen seniors' minds and give them something in which to be excited.
At Always Best Care, we only hire care providers that we would trust to care for our own loved ones. Our senior caregivers in Oak Island, NC understand how important it is to listen and communicate with their seniors. A seemingly small interaction, like a short hug goodbye, can make a major difference in a senior's day. Instead of battling against feelings of isolation, seniors begin to look forward to seeing their caregiver each week.
Understanding the nuances of senior care is just one of the reasons why our care providers are so great at their job.
Unlike some senior care companies, our caregivers must undergo extensive training before they work for Always Best Care. In addition, our caregivers receive ongoing training throughout the year. This training ensures that their standard of care matches up to the high standards we've come to expect. During this training, they will brush up on their communication skills, safety awareness, and symptom spotting. That way, your loved one receives the highest level of non-medical home care from day one.
While it's true that many seniors prefer to age at home, sometimes in-home care isn't the best fit. For those seniors and their families, choosing an assisted living facility makes more sense. Unfortunately, finding the optimal care facility is easier said than done in today's day and age. That's when Always Best Care's assisted living referral services begin to make a lot of sense.
Assisted living is a form of housing intended for seniors who require varying degrees of medical and personal attention. Accommodations may include single rooms, apartments, or shared living arrangements. Assisted living communities are typically designed to resemble a home-like environment and are physically constructed to encourage the independence of residents.
At assisted living communities, seniors receive help with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, and eating. They may also benefit from coordination of services with outside healthcare providers, and monitoring of resident activities to ensure their health, safety, and well-being. Caregivers who work at assisted living communities can also provide medication administration and personal care services for older adults.
Other services offered within assisted living communities can include some or all of the following:
At Always Best Care, our representatives can match your senior's emotional, physical, and financial needs with viable assisted living communities nearby. Results are based on comparative data, so you can select the best choice for you or your loved one.
Always Best Care works closely with local senior living communities to gain valuable knowledge that we then use to help seniors and their loved ones make informed decisions. This information can include basic care and rent, resident availability, and services provided. Because Always Best Care is compensated by these communities, we provide senior living referral services at no extra cost to you.
Some of the most popular assisted living communities to consider in our area include the following:
For many seniors, moving into a senior living community revolves around how and when they want to make a transition to more involved care. Some seniors are more proactive about transitioning to independent living. Others choose to remain home until their care needs or other requirements are satisfied. Remember - our staff is here to help. Contact our office today to learn more about assisted living communities and how we can find a facility that exceeds your expectations.
The first step in getting quality in-home care starts with a personal consultation with an experienced Always Best Care Care Coordinator. This initial consultation is crucial for our team to learn more about you or your elderly loved one to discover the level of care required. Topics of this consultation typically include:
A discussion of your needs and how our trained caregivers can offer assistance in the most effective way
A draft of your care plan, which includes highly detailed notes and a framework for the care that you or your senior will receive
Discuss payment options and help coordinate billing with your insurance provider
Our caregivers are trained to spot changes that clients exhibit, like mental and physical decline. As your trusted senior care company, we will constantly assess and update your Care Plan to meet any new emotional, intellectual, physical, and emotional needs.
If you have never considered in-home care before, we understand that you and your family may have concerns about your Care Plan and its Care Coordinator. To help give you peace of mind, know that every team member and caregiver must undergo comprehensive training before being assigned to a Care Plan.
At the end of the day, we only hire the best of the best at Always Best Care. Whether you need home care in Oak Island, NC 24-hours a day or only need a respite for a couple of hours, we are here to serve you.
When you're ready, we encourage you to contact your local Always Best Care representative to set up a Care Consultation. Our Care Coordinators would be happy to meet with you in person to get to know you better, discuss your needs, and help put together a personalized Care Plan specific to your needs.
While some families are hanging ornaments on Christmas trees inside warm homes, this husband and wife are leaving their tree’s de?cor up to beachgoers.Oak Island residents Michelle and Craig Ryan are taking Christmas traditions to a new sea level by hoisting their tree up in the sand for the community to see and enjoy.The Ryans moved to Oak Island in 2021 from Chicago, Michelle Ryan said. She said they were looking for a new community to eventually retire in.What started out as a three-day stop in Ocean Isle Beach ...
While some families are hanging ornaments on Christmas trees inside warm homes, this husband and wife are leaving their tree’s de?cor up to beachgoers.
Oak Island residents Michelle and Craig Ryan are taking Christmas traditions to a new sea level by hoisting their tree up in the sand for the community to see and enjoy.
The Ryans moved to Oak Island in 2021 from Chicago, Michelle Ryan said. She said they were looking for a new community to eventually retire in.
What started out as a three-day stop in Ocean Isle Beach on a road trip turned into finding their forever beachfront home in Oak Island less than a month later.
“We kind of discovered Oak Island on a road trip,” she said. “Never spent a night here and took a leap of faith and bought a house.”
Michelle Ryan said they fell in love with the Oak Island community on the trip, noting she liked having two bridges connected to the island and nearby grocery stores.
“Every day we drove back to Oak Island, it felt homier to us than the other communities. … And everybody was so dang friendly and welcoming,” she said.
Since their move over three years ago, the Ryans have found great friends and new traditions.
Michelle Ryan said they saw a Christmas tree on the beach strand during their first Christmas on the island. The beach tree inspired her to bring the fun a little closer to home.
The couple put up their first beach strand Christmas tree in 2022 between the E. 55th and E. 52nd beach accesses. Michelle Ryan said it reminded her of how she loved adding lights to trees that surrounded their house in Chicago.
“We’ve put that out just to have our little piece of Christmas that everybody can enjoy walking down the beach,” she said.
Their annual beach Christmas tree has been a hit.
Local residents and visitors add ornaments to the tree each year and the Ryans love it. Some ornaments on the tree include names, dates and different states. Handmade and unique ornaments have also been tucked into the tree.
“It’s just wild to see it,” Michelle Ryan said.
Though last year’s tree and ornaments were swept into the sea by an unexpected storm last December, Ryan said she hopes to collect and store all new ornaments on this year’s tree.
Her desire is to decorate the annual tree with both old and new ornaments so returning families have their own memories attached to the tree.
Michelle Ryan said people already coordinate photo shoots of families in Christmas pajamas and the Grinch in front of the tree.
Despite Craig Ryan installing the Christmas tree, Michelle said it is the “town’s tree."
“That’s been really great to see everybody kind of pull together and help decorate the tree,” she said.
The tree even lights up using battery-operated lights, she added.
Watching the community embrace the tree and talking with people around it has made her and her husband happy, Michelle Ryan said.
“It’s been really special,” she said.
Their new-found tradition has also inspired other families to install beach Christmas trees along the Oak Island and Caswell beach strands, like the one at E. 43rd.
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“It warms our heart, to just see folks really enjoying the tree and it was something that was so easy to do,” Michelle Ryan said.
For those wanting to join in on the fun, Ryan said her husband installed the tree by driving PVC pipe into the sand and used the pipe to hold the tree trunk.
“It holds brilliantly,” she noted.
The Ryans plan to keep the tradition alive as long as they live on the island and are physically able.
“It has meant a lot to us and it really makes us smile when we see everybody around the tree,” said Michelle Ryan.
Savanna Tenenoff covers Brunswick County for the StarNews. Reach her at[email protected].
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It’s a beautiful fall day on the Oak Island Pier. The sun is shining, the temperature is perfect, and the fish are biting. Well, sometimes they are, anyway.Joe Meno of Fayetteville has caught about 15 fish over the past five days. His daughter, Patsy Brewer, also of Fayetteville has accompanied Meno on the trip and explains the fish aren’t much to write home about size-wise.“Some are like nuggets, but we put them in the freezer anyway,” she said with a smile. “They can be an appetize...
It’s a beautiful fall day on the Oak Island Pier. The sun is shining, the temperature is perfect, and the fish are biting. Well, sometimes they are, anyway.
Joe Meno of Fayetteville has caught about 15 fish over the past five days. His daughter, Patsy Brewer, also of Fayetteville has accompanied Meno on the trip and explains the fish aren’t much to write home about size-wise.
“Some are like nuggets, but we put them in the freezer anyway,” she said with a smile. “They can be an appetizer.”
Meno and Brewer are visiting Oak Island to participate in the Oak Island Peer Fishin’ Festival, hosted by Operation North State, a nonprofit organization that provides recreational outings for wounded warriors and disabled veterans.
Meno served as a paratrooper in the U.S. Army for 30 years and has participated in the event for the past four years. The 87-year-old explained for him, it isn’t all about fishing.
“It’s relaxing and takes my mind off things,” he said. “It’s great therapy.”
That’s exactly what Operation North State founder Terry Snyder had in mind when he started the organization in December 2010. Snyder, who lives in the Winston-Salem area, wanted to do something to help disabled veterans.
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While Operation North State hosts several recreational events, including a monthly cycling outing, he admits the veterans’ favorites are the ones that involve fishing. While most occur in the Piedmont area, there are three at the coast, including the one on Oak Island, which is one of the two fishing events where veterans can bring their families.
He explained the fishing events are called “festivals” because it’s all about “fellowship and friendship.” Operation North State doesn’t cover the cost of travel or accommodations, but it does cover the expenses associated with their fishing excursion, including providing bait, rods and reels, and tackle, if needed.
Snyder said they also typically provide breakfast and either lunch or dinner for the participants. Due to an outpouring of support from the community, those at the Oak Island event enjoyed breakfast and lunch each day, as well as two dinners. Snyder said he’s already had organizations express a desire to help next year.
“With communities like this one, the support is off the charts,” he said.
Volunteers are also essential in pulling off the event, and many say they get as much of the experience as the veterans they are helping.
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“I look forward to this week more than anything else,” said volunteer Lucy Perdue of Southport. “I get so blessed.”
As she makes the rounds, Perdue stops to greet Bruce Hayden, a 92-year-old Korean War Veteran who lives in Southport.
Hayden, who is accompanied by his two sons, has participated for several years and makes sure it’s on his calendar each year. For him, the event is about the camaraderie found with other disabled veterans.
“It’s getting more and more difficult to find veterans these days, especially Korean War vets,” he said. “There’s a few of us left.”
To learn more about Operation North State, visit www.operationnorthstate.com.
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