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RALEIGH, N.C. -- For nearly every player on the NC State roster, the morning starts the exact same way -- running by the "OG."
That's the nickname for Ruffin McNeill, who has now been a member of the NC State coaching staff for more than two years. Since the day he was hired on July 7, 2020, McNeill has been a light for the program in his role as a Special Assistant to the Head Coach in every tangible way possible.
While there are several things he's not allowed to do in his advisory role, the "OG" has a special bond with the entire team that can be seen every time they run out onto the practice field. In the most recent episode of NC State All-Access on the ACC Network, McNeill could be seen in his golf cart being hugged by veteran players like Isaiah Moore and true freshman Torren Wright.
There is no relationship too big or too small for McNeill, and that's what made him want to come to Raleigh in the first place to work under Dave Doeren.
"I work straight with coach Doeren, but also with the players," McNeill told Pack Pride. "They stop by and talk and have conversations and they ask me about the shared experiences that I've been able to be a part of. ... We have a great relationship that's built on trust and verification of trust. I know the coaches and coach Doeren trust me, but they verify my trust.
"And just as importantly with the players, we have trust and a verification of trust. They know if they come and visit me that I'm gonna tell them the absolute truth. When they come to me for answers or suggestions or whatever I may provide, they know I'm there for them."
The coaching journey for McNeill is well known at this point, after spending more than 40 years in the profession. After spending four years as a cornerback at East Carolina -- three years as a starter, two as a captain -- McNeill climbed his way up the coaching ranks starting out as an assistant at Lumberton High.
McNeill made stops at several programs like Clemson, Appalachian State, UNLV, Fresno State and Texas Tech before landing back with his alma mater as the head coach in 2010. After leading the program to three straight seasons with eight or more wins from 2012-14 -- including the second 10-win campaign in school history -- McNeill was fired by the Pirates.
The first person to call McNeill after he was let go by East Carolina? That came from Dave Doeren.
He's since gone on to be the Associate Head Coach at both Virginia and Oklahoma and continued to enjoy a successful career at both stops. But when his father was diagnosed with dementia, McNeill had to make the hardest decision of his life in stepping away from coaching.
The first call he received after the news went public? It once again came from Doeren.
"Not the second, but the very first phone call," McNeill said on the ACC Network segment.
Doeren knew all about the path McNeill was about to embark on. His father has battled with Alzheimer's disease while McNeill was moving back home to be closer to his father for similar reasons. It wasn't until later that McNeill received another phone call from Doeren to offer him a job back in the coaching profession.
"Dave knew I was coming home, so he called and arranged a position to come be an assistant to him," McNeill explained on the All-Access episode, "I couldn't think of a more perfect way to keep my mind busy. ... We were put here together for a reason at this time. I know that it was for more than just football."
One of the driving factors for Doeren simply reaching out to McNeill was their long history together. Though they had never coached on the same staff, they had a history that dated back to 1999 when Doeren was a graduate assistant at USC and McNeill was the defensive line coach at Fresno State.
The two also coached in the Big 12 together from 2002-05 with Doeren at Kansas and McNeill at Texas Tech. During Doeren's first three years at NC State, McNeill was the head coach at ECU. Getting that type of leadership on the sidelines with an already loaded 10-person coaching staff is not something that Doeren takes lightly.
"The biggest thing is just how Ruff treats people," Doeren said. "Everybody that he meets is his best friend. They walk in and he's just got a real warm way of treating people and respecting people. I just love that about him. ... His value cannot be quantitated for me because of the relationship and the way he looks after us."
So where does that infectious personality come from? It's been his entire way of life for as long as he can remember from his parents.
"I go back to my mom and dad, Bonnie and Ruffin McNeill, who raised me and my brother, Reggie, making sure we learn to serve," McNeill said. "Service is the rent we pay for the privilege of living on the face of this earth. I live by that quote by Shirley Chisholm. I think my role is to serve and I'm honored -- beyond honored -- to be able to do that and very humbled.
"People that know me know I like being in the background. I want other people to succeed and get praised."
After two highly successful years since he joined the program, the "OG" is set to head back to East Carolina in less than two weeks for the first time on the sidelines for NC State. Though it's a position he didn't see ever happening, it's one he's embracing as he helps drive home the culture for the Wolfpack alongside Doeren.
"Ten years ago, I never would've imagined I'd be working here," McNeill said. "But I'm glad I am now. I love what I'm doing, I love coaching and I love serving these young men."
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