Tom Brockett, one of the most successful high school football coaches in Connecticut history, announced his resignation Thursday, bringing the curtain down on a remarkable, 19-year run at the small Naugatuck Valley school.
Winner of 215 games against just 18 losses over 18 seasons, Brockett retires as the most efficient winner in state history with a .922 career winning percentage, which is also the third-highest in the history of high school football in the United States.
Perhaps more important to his city and school, Brockett also won a school-record eight state championships — which is one more than his mentor and predecessor, Jack Hunt, for whom Brockett took over as head coach in 2006. Overall, Brockett's program played in 13 state finals.
He made what he called a "gut-wrenching" decision for family reasons, namely a promise to himself that he would step down when his daughter, Taylor, reached high school. She's currently a freshman lacrosse player at Lyman Hall of Wallingford. His younger son, Michael, is a hockey and lacrosse player in 6th grade.
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"I was able push it and make it work for one more year," Brockett said, referring to Ansonia's 2024 Class S championship season. "But you don't want to miss these moments with your kids. ...I know everybody always says that. It's not so much spending time with them, it's being present for your kids. And it's real hard now to be present for them."
With the support of his wife, Nicole — "Who's done everything anyone could possibly do for our kids and for myself," Brockett said — he finalized the decision this week. He informed the coaching staff on Wednesday before what was described as a "tearful and emotional" meeting with his players at school on Thursday.
"It's the hardest decision I've ever made in my life," said Brockett, 47, who will remain in his role as athletic director and a school administrator. "We've lost just 18 games in my career and they were all hard, but this was harder than any one of those losses.
"I've been so fortunate and it has been the greatest honor of my life to serve as the head coach of this program alongside some unbelievable administrators, assistant coaches, and players," he continued. "It was a storybook career for me, from the way I was treated and supported by the community and the school. I've never been in trouble with my board of education, I've never had any parent complaints... I just can't thank the people of Ansonia enough. I mean, I've had great support from the mayor, to the superintendent and principals and teachers and coaches.
"No coach in America is luckier than me."
In a letter to the school district, Ansonia Superintendent Joseph DiBacco, lamented Brockett's decision to leave, if only of what he's meant to the community.
"I truly wish Tom well...yet, I don't want him to retire from coaching," DiBacco wrote. "I know that is wrong and selfish to feel that way. In life, you should appreciate the time you have with people — tell them what they mean to you and wish them well.
"I need to take that advice and thank Coach Brockett for his years of dedication to Ansonia. On behalf of the entire Ansonia community, I want to express our deepest gratitude for his years of dedication, leadership, and excellence as the head coach of the Ansonia Chargers. His retirement marks the end of an incredible era — one defined by championships, tradition, and most importantly, the positive impact he has had on generations of young men."
As for Brockett's future, he says this is it. "I'm not coaching anywhere else," he said. "This is the place that I love. This is home."
As for his successor, Brockett said he will be involved in the hiring process, but declined to say if he had someone in mind. "We have an unbelievable staff at Ansonia that's going to do great things going forward."
Brockett leaves a profound legacy of success for his successor.
Twenty-seven-years old when he was promoted from defensive coordinator to head football coach in 2006, Ansonia's football fans might have wondered if this kid, who stood about 5-foot-6, could ever measure up to towering presence of the 6-foot-7 Hunt, who'd set the bar for Ansonia greatness with 193 victories and seven titles in 19 seasons.
Despite the enormous pressure to live up to both Hunt's record and his enthusiastic endorsement, Brockett said it wasn't any worse than the pressure he put on himself -- especially as Ansonia continued to win. He described sleepless hours mapping out Ansonia's strategies and coaching up his players, 23 of whom became New Haven Register All-State First Team selections. "You became obsessed with it," Brockett said. "It was my drug. I was obsessed with it. I gave it my all."
In his first-two seasons, Ansonia won back-to-back, unbeaten Class S championship seasons and the Register's final No. 1 ranking. He presided over seven undefeated seasons and his teams finished No. 1 in the New Haven Register's Top 10 football poll three times.
Behind a tight-knit staff of longtime Ansonia natives, including decades-long stalwarts Bob Lisi and John Sponheimer, Brockett coached Ansonia to 34-consecutive victories before losing his first, to Crosby, 18-14, on Nov. 7, 2008. Ansonia later lost to Cromwell, 14-12, in that year's Class S final and, the following season, failed to reach a final for the first time in Brockett's tenure.
However, the Chargers went on to reach the finals in each of the next eight seasons, winning four titles.
After losing to St. Joseph in a 2010 Class S shootout, Ansonia — behind Parade All-American back Arkeel Newsome — embarked on one of the most dominant runs in Connecticut sports history. The Chargers won 48-consecutive games and three-consecutive state championships (including a No. 1 ranking in 2013) and came within one game of tying Cheshire's all-time mark of 49-consecutive wins.
But on Oct. 17, 2014, in front of a packed house at Blue and Gold Stadium, the Chargers came up short against Newtown, 14-8. Ansonia also lost that year's state final to Valley Regional/Old Lyme, 21-20, and to Bloomfield in 2015.
Ansonia returned to the pinnacle in 2016, defeating Rocky Hill for the championship. The program's next great milestone was a 103-game win streak against opponents from the Naugatuck Valley League, which began at the start of the 2011 season and ended more than 10 years later: when Ansonia lost to Naugatuck, 14-7, on Thanksgiving Day, 2021.
Ansonia went on to play in two more state finals from 2021 onward, winning twice, in 2022 and — finally — in 2024, making him the first coach in Connecticut to win a title in his first and last season. "You couldn't write a better script for a coach," he said.
Brockett wasn't quite sure what he would do on game nights in autumn except be "as far away from everybody else, possibly,"
"I don't have any hobbies. My wife will tell you I can't fix a thing. Sports has been everything to me," Brockett said. "I don't know what I'll do next, I do worry about having to reinvent yourself. But I'll definitely find things to do. I'm still an administrator and athletic director, so I have plenty on my plate."
April 10, 2025|Updated April 10, 2025 5:03 p.m.
Sean Patrick Bowley
Assistant Sports Editor
Sean -- or SPB -- is a Woodbridge native and an alumnus of Amity Regional and Syracuse University who has covered high school sports in Connecticut for over two decades, beginning at Elm City Newspapers and Connecticut Post, now as editor of GameTimeCT.com. Sean has won numerous national and regional honors and is best known for his innovative and comprehensive coverage of Connecticut high school football. A ski and movie aficionado during off-seasons, he still calls Greater New Haven home.