A viral video reached many people across the country. In it, a dance studio teacher from Plainville is seen hugging three out of four girls.
PLAINVILLE, Conn. — A mom is speaking out after a video that went viral shows a dance studio teacher from Plainville in a group hug with students, which excluded her biracial daughter. The mom said her kids were later dismissed from the studio after the mom confronted the teacher about the hug.
“It’s the same kick to the gut every time you watch it,” is how Melissa Breglia described the video taken at a dance competition in Hartford on Sunday.
She said her 9-year-old daughter was left out of a hug from her dance teacher. The video from the dance competition captures her teacher coming up on stage and appearing to hug three other girls on stage, but not Breglia’s daughter.
That video has over 400,000 views on TikTok and more than 4,000 reactions on Facebook.
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Breglia said her daughter was crushed after it all happened.
“She was like, 'I did all of my moves right, Mommy, and I smiled the whole time. But she hugged everybody else except for me,'” Breglia said.
After her daughter was left out, Breglia said she confronted Nadia Boucher, a teacher at Dance Xpressions in Plainville.
“Nadia walked in [the dressing room]. I walked up to her and said, 'how dare you make my child feel less than,'” Breglia said. “She immediately stiffens up and was like, ‘I didn’t do anything, why are you yelling at me?’ I was like, 'I’m not yelling at you, I want to be yelling at you, and I’m not.'"
Breglia said her daughters – who are 9 and 11-years-old - were both released from Dance Xpressions the next day.
In an email from the dance company, Breglia said it wrote, “Due to aggressive behavior, I have breached the contract, and because of a breach of contract, your children will be dismissed from our company and zero refunds.”
FOX61 went to Dance Xpressions Wednesday afternoon to ask about the video and the email. A representative at the front desk initially declined to comment but the owner of Dance Xpressions, Phyllis Boucher, later sent this statement:
We at Dance Xpressions are deeply saddened by the recent misunderstanding that occurred during a dance competition. It has come to our attention that one of our dancers, Shaniah, was unintentionally not included in a group hug on stage. Our instructor sincerely believed she had embraced all the students, including Shaniah, and was unaware of the oversight.
Following the competition, concerns were raised by Shaniah’s family regarding the incident. Our instructor immediately addressed the situation by apologizing to Shaniah, expressing that the exclusion was unintentional and never meant to cause hurt. Emotions were understandably high, and efforts were made to move the discussion to a private setting to ensure a productive conversation.
Over the past years, we have worked to support all our dancers and their families, including Shaniah and her sister. After careful consideration, we made the difficult decision to part ways with the family, as we strive to maintain a positive and respectful environment for all members of our studio community. These decisions are never made lightly, and we recognize the impact they can have.
We would like to take this opportunity to once again extend our sincere apologies to Shaniah for the unintentional oversight. Dance Xpressions remains committed to fostering an inclusive, welcoming space for all dancers. We are saddened by any misrepresentation of our studio and the challenges that have followed. However, our focus remains on providing a supportive and nurturing experience for every dancer who walks through our doors.
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Kaye Paddyfote is a reporter at FOX61 News. She can be reached at kpaddyfote@fox61.com. Follow her onX and Instagram.
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