WATERTOWN — United Methodist Church was struggling in 2023 with a dwindling congregation and the loss of its minister. The church was not alone.
A dramatic drop in attendance at services nationwide has spurred houses of worship across many faiths to close in increasing numbers, according to churchleadership.org.
“At one point, we were down to about 25 people in the church,” said Donna Sullivan, a longtime congregant in Watertown. “The sanctuary will hold 300 people.”
The last four ministers at United Methodist Church served an average of 1.75 years apiece between 2014 and 2023, according to umdata.org. By contrast, the previous six ministers served an average of 6.83 years since 1962.
“They were talking about shutting the church down,” Sullivan said. “We had no minister. We had to do something.”
To keep as many active congregants as possible, Sullivan and other members recruited lay preachers and a musical duo, but they still had to pay the bills. The 125-year-old church building on Main Street had to be maintained and heated, as did the 12-room parsonage next door, built originally as a private residence in 1895 by industrialist Buell Heminway.
“We started by doing an outdoor tag sale at the parsonage and we got a lot of donations,” Sullivan said. “And then my sister, Laura Brandt, said, ‘Why don’t we bring some items inside, in the kitchen?’”
Sullivan was skeptical at first, but because they had no minister, no one was living in the parsonage. Why not use it?
They started small, just using the kitchen to display tag sale items. They advertised on social media and word of mouth. Soon, all 12 rooms of the parsonage, known as Wesley Hall, became a showcase for a thrift shop called Main Street Boutique.
Donations have poured in from neighboring towns as well as Watertown, Sullivan noted, and they are many and varied. The kitchen of the parsonage features kitchen items, including coffeemakers and can openers, even a dehydrator. In the adjoining dining room are glassware, china and related items. A sign on a table has sale items priced “3 for $1.”
Other rooms are dedicated to menswear, womenswear, children’s clothing, toys, books, vinyl records, jewelry, linens and antiques.
On Saturdays, Jerry Pia and his wife, Teddi Pia, sing and play music in the dining room for shoppers. Jerry also is the church's music director, and Teddi is in the choir.
Pat Bessette, one of many volunteers in the boutique, said, “The boutique was started as a way to support the church financially. It has become so much more than that. When the boutique is open for business and the shoppers are looking for their treasures, we see lots of smiles. The boutique is not only a place to shop, but a place to feel welcomed. It is a house filled with laughter, great communication and a sense of community. The creation of the boutique has been a blessing to so many people in so many ways.”
In July, a new minister, the Rev. Jane H. Kim, arrived. She is shared with Waterbury United Methodist Church, and her residence is in Waterbury. The Watertown parsonage, therefore, can continue to house the many items at Main Street Boutique, Sullivan said.
“I believe the boutique will continue, especially if/when the church grows,” she wrote in an email. “With a larger congregation, it should bring in more volunteers.”
Other volunteers include Rick Brandt, Karen Bronson, Nancy Cunningham, Paula Labonte, Chris Montambault, Rose Norton, Carol Prapp, Lisa Reardon and Sue Woodward.
Main Street Boutique is open from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on the second and fourth Saturdays of each month in April through December, and is at Wesley Hall, 329 Main St., next to the church.