The last name Parker is easily recognized in Davie County in particular, because of the well-known coach, teacher, ball player and mentor; the late Grimes “Bimmie” Parker. Now it’s time we get to know about the other half, Grime’s wife, Fran Parker.
Fran started her new role as a Cooleemite when she was 19 but grew up in Clear Water, Florida with her mother, Doris Logan; father, Charley Logan; and her sister, Sarah McDaniel.
Cooleemee being such a small town, less than 1,000 residents, makes us wonder how anyone from another state finds Cooleemee as their home. Usually they say on the internet, but Fran’s story is much different.
Fran’s father was originally from Alabama and claimed he was so nice and smart. She and her sister got one spanking from him. After Sarah threw her father’s key’s away and wouldn’t say where, younger sister Fran tried to save her from trouble by slipping off her brand-new shoes and let water run over them in the sink. Well, her father wasn’t at all happy with her decision so both got a slight spanking.
Fran took after her mother who was feisty, an extravert and very friendly but her father was an introvert. When her parents got married, they eloped.
Fran had accumulated the necessary credits to graduate her senior year, and obtained a part-time job at the local courthouse due to her studies in business. That clerk’s office position turned full time when she graduated.
John Parker, Grimes’ brother, signed with the Phillies. Since the Phillies trained in Clear Water, Fran had a chance to meet him. They were dating and flew to N.C. to meet his parents in Cooleemee NC and Fran dragged her sister Sarah along.
When they entered the house, that was the first time Grimes and Fran met.
“I can’t explain it, when Grimes and I laid eyes on each other, I thought what am I doing? I just couldn’t stop looking at him, it was like something was between us, I don’t know what it was,” Fran said.
Grime’s father ordered from U-Stop-In-Grill and told “Bimmie” to go and get the food. He asked Fran if she wanted to go.
Grimes talked a lot on the short drive there and in a jokingly way said to Fran, “I’m going to tell you one thing, you know what girl, if John doesn’t marry you I will.”
After John was assigned to Wytheville, Virginia, Fran and John’s relationship fizzled out.
When Grimes found that out, he wanted Fran to come up to see him and she did. Since Sarah and she were going to West Virginia to see a friend they stopped by N.C. on the way home.
Grimes went to Florida to see Frans and took his good buddy, Donnie Everhardt with him.
Fran took three days off work and on the third day, Grimes was headed back home. Grimes pulled in a ball park and said, “I can’t leave without you. You’re just going to have to go with me.” Fran of course didn’t want him to go back either.
“Will you marry me,” he said, and Fran said, “I sure will.”
Grimes stayed in the car while Fran went in and told her parents they were going to elope.
Her dad tried to talk her out of leaving but Fran reminded him he and her mother did the same thing. “I know this is right for me, I know it is.” He said, “OK.”
After getting her birth certificate and a few clothes they left. What a surprise in Gaffney, South Carolina, when they learned they had to wait 24 hours after getting the license to marry.
What do you do when you don’t have any money to stay somewhere and you don’t want to go home?
A rest area was a perfect place to eat KFC then they slept in the car, all three of them, Fran with her future husband and his best friend. At 9:00 the next morning, they were married.
Grimes called his dad and he said, “I told you daddy, I was going to marry that girl. I told you.”
Fran stands behind her love story, “It was love at first sight.”
Cooleemee looked different from Florida. Fran lived with Grime’s parents while he was at Appalachian State University all week and came home on weekends.
Grimes told her, people at the shopping center said you were kind of stuck up. She said she didn’t know anybody. He encouraged her to speak to everyone and she did.
After Grimes graduated, Fran worked really hard to find him a job. She had three good ones, one in which had a good salary and the house would be provided.
Grimes was very leery about having to go and do interviews with all of them, and out of the blue that night, the principal at Cooleemee Elementary School, Mr. V.G. Prim called. Joan King was going out on maternity leave and he needed a replacement. “I’ll take it”, Grimes told him. Grimes walked to his house that night, signed the paperwork and that was that.
Being pregnant with Alicia, Fran got a job at the Erwin Mills in Cooleemee. She worked second shift in the lab and not long after then the mill closed.
Fran said, “I had a house that was furnished, a baby and a husband all in the same week.”
Money was tight and with her determination she got a job at the bank in Mocksville. She got pregnant with her son Steven after about two years and she couldn’t stay on her feet but for so long. Part time put her working on Mondays and Fridays, the worst two days of the week.
The house Fran lives in now is where they moved to for a better home and larger space.
The children were drug to every ball game because Fran wanted to see Grimes and she liked the sports.
Steven turned 5 years old and it was time for kindergarten but he was so attached to his mother he wouldn’t stay with anyone. “You can beat me to death daddy but I’m not going to stay with anybody but Mama.”
But then came along Lisa Osborne, who went to Fran’s house to keep Steven and the ease of separation worked. He was ready for kindergarten.
Fran worked at Ingersoll Rand for about 8 1/2 years. Forgetting she had applied to the school system, she got a call for an interview for the finance department.
Even though she loved her job at Ingersol, she decided the hours would be ideal for her son that wanted to be involved in sports.
She worked for four superintendents, five finance officers and then she retired after a total 25 years.
Finally, after Grimes had been retired about six years, now Fran was retired, and they could be together again. “We had the best time together.”
Fran reflects on what her mother taught her, “You need to work hard, when you find someone, you need to love hard and all this time you need to be kind.”
Oddly enough, Fran was told by her aunt while standing at her father’s casket, that her father was a very good basketball player and he loved it. Fran never knew that.
Basketball is in Fran’s blood and she plays an important role in the Grimes Parker Basketball Camp each year. There are specific roles that are consistently filled with the same volunteers each year. This is a great relief to Fran.
Fran handles all the financing, donations, sending emails to remind parents about the camp. Being present at the camp is a constant reminder of Grimes not being there. It has only been two years since his passing so being in the same home where all the memories are, is where she wants to be.
Fran is always thinking of ways to make the camp better and her main concern is for the campers to learn good basketball skills; to have fun and to keep the fee low so any child who wants to attend can come. Scholarships are also available. She hopes to have new Nike shoes again for the campers.
Fran is one of the nicest people anyone could ever meet. She has a big heart, very sincere and is definitely making a huge difference in those kids lives that come each year at the camp.
Fran is a true master of Cooleemee and we are so happy we can call her our neighbor.
Fran’s Family: Daughter, Alicia Johnson and son, Steven Parker; grandchildren, Drue Parker, Somer Johnson, Lauren Parker Brooks, Bodie Parker, Owen Parker and Crosby Parker; and great-grandchildren, Parker Brooks, Blakely Brooks and Cameron Brooks.