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New Brunswick Mayor Jim Cahill and retired Lt. Col. Sean Smith laying a wreath in Monument Square Park as part of the Veterans Day Parade on Monday.
Joan Calo, who served about eight years in the Army, said the annual Veterans Day Parade spanning New Brunswick and Highland Park brought back a flood of memories about her late husband. John Calo served about 20 years in the Army as a medic.Photo Credit: Chuck O'Donnell
The bleets of bagpipes added a somber tone to Monday's Veterans Day Parade spanning New Brunswick and Highland Park.Photo Credit: Chuck O'Donnell
Daryl Steinback, who served as a staff sergeant in the Army, said Monday's Veterans Day Parade spanning New Brunswick and Highland Park brought back memories of his service in Kuwait during Desert Storm.Photo Credit: Chuck O'Donnell
New Brunswick Mayor Jim Cahill and retired Lt. Col. Sean Smith laying a wreath in Monument Square Park as part of the Veterans Day Parade on Monday.Photo Credit: Chuck O'Donnell
Joan Calo, who served about eight years in the Army, said the annual Veterans Day Parade spanning New Brunswick and Highland Park brought back a flood of memories about her late husband. John Calo served about 20 years in the Army as a medic.Photo Credit: Chuck O'Donnell
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By Chuck O'Donnell
Published November 11, 2024 at 5:26 PM
NEW BRUNSWICK and HIGHLAND PARK – The roar of the fire trucks, the skirl of the bagpipes and a red, white, and blue swirl of sights and sounds moved past Joan Calo on Monday afternoon.
Standing with a little help from her walker at the corner of Raritan Avenue and Memory Lane, Joan’s thoughts turned to her late husband.
John and Joan Calo were both Army combat medics, and how many GIs they patched up, propped up and cheered up, we’ll never know. But Joan will tell you that her husband was a quiet man who was proud of his service in the Korean and Vietnam wars.
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“We were working in a hospital when we met – he was my boss,” Joan said. “They moved us down because he couldn’t be my boss, so we ended up at a hospital in Belgium. It was the hospital for NATO headquarters. We ended up getting married in Copenhagen, Denmark. My daughter thinks it’s neat because our marriage license has 15 different languages on it.”
For veterans like Joan, a Highland Park native who served eight years in the Army before being discharged in 1982, Monday’s moving ceremonies at the Dough Boy Statue in Highland Park and at Memorial Square Park in New Brunswick brought back a flood of memories.
It was a day not only to thank veterans for their service, but to stop and listen to their stories about their service.
“I just want to highlight that today’s Veterans Day is for us,” said grand marshal Lt. Col. Sean Smith. “It’s for the veterans who are still here, for all of you who are still here, walking amongst us to tell the story of what we’ve done and what our service has done and to keep the honor of the armed services going in the public light. So, please remember this day is for you and your families.”
It’s a day for veterans like Daryl Steinback to talk about his service.
The solemn strains of “Taps” had dissipated into the wind-tossed New Brunswick afternoon, and the crowd had left, but Steinback was standing in Monument Square Park, talking about his 12 years or so of service in the Army.
Steinback spent about a year in Kuwait during Desert Storm in 1991, working mostly with radios and teletype.
“I was part of the commo (communications) team,” he said. “We kept the Army moving. Without the commo team, they couldn’t move.”
Steinback is an active member of VFW Post No. 370, helping organize luncheons and other events. He also helps fellow veterans.
“There’s this one guy in Highland Park who’s on the second floor, and he can't take the stairs,” he said. “So, I bring boxes of food and other stuff up to him.”
Steinback said many of his fallen brothers and sisters were in his mind and heart on Veterans Day.
It was the same for Joan Calo.
She said it was funny how on Monday some of the small memories that she hadn’t thought of in a while were coming back to her. Like how the Army sent her and John to Spain for two weeks to help out at an old monastery in the middle of a lake. Or how they settled into an old farmhouse in Belgium, since the Army didn’t have much housing. Or how they honeymooned in Denmark.
Joan said the love of her life passed away in 2014 of lung cancer exacerbated by exposure to Agent Orange.
“I just miss seeing him,” she said. “We were married for 37 years. I loved him so much.”